5 Signs Your Ex Boyfriend is Still in Love With You
Trying to win back your boyfriend? You'll need to know when all your hard work is paying off. If you're not sure if your ex still wants you or not, finding out his true feelings can help speed up the reconciliation process.
Losing someone you love to a break up can be depressing and sad, but if you're working toward getting your boyfriend back at least you're taking steps in a positive direction.
What's not known is that most breakups can easily be reversed, and couples make up every single day. Time, patience, and a willingness to do the right things are all that's standing between you and your ex boyfriend getting back together again.
In addition, you also need to tell if (and when) your ex wants you back. This enables you to act swiftly and appropriately, during the correct timing window. Whether or not he's showing his heart on his sleeve, you need to know how your ex boyfriend really feels. Below you'll find 5 signs your ex boyfriend still wants you in his life.
My Ex Boyfriend Keeps In Touch With Me
Whenever your ex keeps the lines of communication open, it means he's not totally finished with your relationship. He might stick around as a "friend", or call you up with a thousand platonic excuses to find out how you're doing, but what your boyfriend is really up to is keeping tabs on you. Your ex wants to know where you are, just in case he reverses his decision to end things. It's comforting for him to know that he can get you back anytime he wants, especially if you're not dating anyone else.
Keeping in touch and constantly contacting is one way your ex can know all about your everyday life, but still hide behind the guise of friendship as he pursues other interests. Is it a sign he wants you back? Maybe not right now. But it's a definite sign that he doesn't want you to go away.
My Ex Boyfriend Called After A Long Period Of Not Talking To Me
An ex who dials your number (or emails you, or text-messages you...) after a long period of silence is looking to find out your current status. Something happened in his life that changed the way he looked at you. Perhaps he was chasing another girl and it didn't work out, or maybe he was reconsidering the romance he had with you. Hell, maybe he just plain misses you big time. No matter what he says or how nonchalant he might act, your ex is really getting in touch with you for one reason: he still wants you.
Don't let any of his lame excuses fool you, either. Ex boyfriends will call saying anything and everything, from asking for old "stuff" back to wanting you to believe they're just saying hello. The truth of the matter is that your ex has been thinking about you, and it took some courage for him to call. Reward that courage by not questioning his motives for calling, at least not right now. If you want your boyfriend back, make sure he knows you're happy he dialed you up.
My Ex Boyfriend Wants To Meet Me
Contact is one thing, but wanting to meet up with you is another big sign your exboyfriend still wants you. You need to be careful on this one however, as it could be that he's only meeting you for physical reasons.
Guys who call wanting to get immediately romantic or fly right back into your arms are probably looking to sleep with you, get a booty call, and satisfy their own sexual needs. An ex who's truly thinking about you again in a girlfriend capacity will be a lot more timid and a lot less quick to jump into something, and that's how you'll know the difference.
You may also be tempted to meet your ex even knowing his intentions are purely sexual. Be careful here, because thinking you can get your boyfriend back through sex alone is a common mistake that could end up hurting you - as well as your future chances for full reconcilation.
Meeting your ex boyfriend is a necessary part of getting back together with him. Make sure you choose something small and quick, like a lunch or coffee date. Your reunion date should last no longer than 45 minutes for best results, and should leave him wanting to see you again. Don't reveal everything you've been doing to your exboyfriend all at once either: make sure you leave enough to the imagination that he'll want to continue to call, email, or contact you.
My Ex Keeps Asking If I'm Seeing Anyone Else
One of the signals given off when your ex wants you back: asking about your dating situation. No guy wants to put himself out on a limb by asking you out again, only to be rejected because you're seeing someone else. If your ex is asking about your lovelife, he's already thinking of being with you again. He could also be jealous and nervous that you're going to move on without him. Knowing that you're not dating anyone gives him the green light to proceed, but don't be too eager to reveal this information entirely. Let him wonder for a bit, and stay the most interested.
My Ex Boyfriend Stopped By To See Me
An exboyfriend who shows up unexpectedly is giving off one of the biggest indications that he wants to date or see you again. A phone call wasn't good enough... a text-message was too impersonal... no, this guy had to physically see you. Such actions are huge - especially considering how hard it must've been for your ex to show up without so much as a phone call or email telling you he was coming. In fact, some guys like this scenario because it allows them to make a grand entrance AND catch you completely unprepared. They might feel they'll get a more honest reaction from you when you don't know they're coming, and you know what? They're probably right.
If you want your ex boyfriend back, let him know you're not unhappy that he showed up. Don't be completely thrilled to death either, but be generally accepting of his pop-in visit. Ask him how he's been, and let him talk about himself for a while. The more he talks, the better your chances of finding out the real reason he came... because he still wants you.
Learning which signals a guy gives off when he's ready to reconcile is a crucial part of winning him back. You need to be prepared to not only identify these signs, but to also encourage the behavior associated with them.
In addition to the signals listed above, you'll run into many other more subtle hints that your ex boyfriend still loves you: body language, voice inflection, etc... etc... etc... Learn about these signs as well, and know what your opening moves should be when it's finally time to reconnect with your ex.
To fix a breakup in which your boyfriend dumped you, you'll need a male's viewpoint, brutal honesty, and straight-forward advice. And this is exactly where the Ex Boyfriend Guru, Matt Huston, comes into play.
Written exclusively for women trying to get back with an ex boyfriend, Get Him Back Forever is just that: a complete, step-by-step guide to not only getting your man back, but also keeping him around for as long as you want him.
The written guidebook and audio files downloaded here go WAY beyond the more common breakup tips and tactics you may have already read. Author Matt Huston brings you deeper and deeper into your ex boyfriend's mind and mindset, showing you exactly what he's thinking before, during, and just after he breaks up with you.
The system goes into great detail as to why your ex boyfriend might currently be coldly ignoring you, and what you can do to draw him closer instead of shoving him unintentionally away. You'll learn tips and tactics for turning the tide, regaining control, and seizing back some semblance of power over whether or not you continue the relationship. Huston shows you what you're doing right now that may be inhibiting or preventing you from getting your ex back, as well as simple adjustments that will make your ex start wanting and needing you again.
One of the strengths of Get Him Back Forever is the author's no-bullshit approach and brutal honesty. He makes no apologizes as he dives into the male psyche, showing you why guys react to certain relationship situations the way they do. Over the course of the system's many audio and visual files, you'll gain new insight as to what may have caused your breakup... and how you can easily reverse it with a minimum of effort.
At the very least, check out this FREE 3-minute example of how you should be handling the initial stages of your breakup, and how you can regain your ex boyfriend's interest and attention even when it seems he might be 'over' the relationship.