Your Ex Has a New Boyfriend - What To Do When She's Already Dating
When your girl breaks up with you and you're still trying to get her back, the last thing you want to find out is that your ex is now dating someone else. Your heart sinks, your mind floods with emotion. Is it finally over?
Not by a longshot. Because if you love her, and you're willing to be patient, there are ways of getting her back quickly even if your ex has a new boyfriend. Why? Because the relationship she's currently involved in is probably nothing more than a temporary rebound.
Finding out your ex is dating a new guy can be one of the most demoralizing things in the world, especially if you've been working toward winning her back. Knowing that she's with someone else right now can make every day tough... it's easy to feel hopeless and depressed, and it's just as easy to give up on her altogether.
If you're not yet ready to let go of your exgirlfriend, and there's still some fight left in you, I have good news. The fact that your ex is now dating a new guy isn't as bad as you think it is.
First of all, how long after your break up did she begin seeing this new boyfriend? If it wasn't all that long, you might be angry... maybe even think she left you for him. In reality though, your ex was probably feeling very vulnerable after the breakup, and clung to the first bit of attention she saw. This means she's in a rebound relationship, and that's the best of all scenarios for you right now.
Think about it. Because your ex went from one relationship straight to another, she never had the time to get over you. This is a HUGE factor when it comes to later on getting her back. Because once your ex's rebound relationship fails - and 90% of them do, within the first 2-4 weeks - her thoughts are going to revert back to the last place she felt safe and secure: with you.
You need to be prepared for that moment. I know right now you want to go out and break them up, pull your ex away from this guy and tell her how much you love her... how much you miss her... and how bad this guy is for her. But right now you can't. Doing that will only make you the psycho jealous ex-boyfriend. She'll resent you for trying to destroy her new romance, especially since right now she and this new guy are in the honeymoon stages of their relationship.
What To Do When Your Ex Girlfriend Starts Dating Some Other Guy
As much as it hurts, you have to suck it up. Get past these next few weeks, so you can be strong and clear-headed when your ex and her new man finally do break up.
As soon as her rebound relationship ends, your ex girlfriend is going to be hurt and confused. She'll need something and someone familiar to cheer her up. Friends and family will help, but she'll wants something closer to her on the same emotional levels as a boyfriend. That person is you. You'll need to be there for her as soon as the rebound is over, to pick her up and dust her off.
Does it suck that she got hurt, and that you had to wait around for this to happen? Yes. But if you want your ex back, you need to think long term. You need to consider the relationship you really want with her - the one that lasts forever. In order to get that, you're going to have to suffer some pain. So will she, but that pain will make your new relationship even stronger. Forging ahead you'll build a much better romance on a much stronger foundation now that you've both made mistakes and know that you'd rather be with each other than be alone.
And if your ex is still with her new boyfriend after a month's time? There are some very radical (and subtle) moves you can make to get her back in your arms. Learn what these are, because the quicker you can plant these seeds the faster you can get your ex to come back to you. Getting back an ex girlfriend requires you to be proactive at times, so before she gets serious with this new guy you'll want to make your play.
There are several great techniques that will help get back an ex girlfriend when she's dating someone else. Read about them now, and learn the right opening moves!
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