Why Your Ex Girlfriend Hasn't Called... and What to Do About It
One of the longest, hardest, and most stressful parts of enduring a break up? Waiting for your ex girlfriend to call you. The silence can be depressing, and not knowing what she's thinking or doing can have your stomach quickly in knots.
If your girlfriend put an end to your relationship and you've been trying to get her back, getting your interested in you again should be your first priority. When it comes to winning her over, making your girl want and need you back is the biggest asset you can have in your favor.
By now, you've probably read a lot about how to get back an ex girlfriend. You may have even tried a whole bunch of things to turn her around. But in the end, if your ex girlfriend hasn't called yet, you may feel like you're back at square one. And even worse, you may be tempted to make the ultimate mistake - calling her.
Getting back together after a break up isn't something you want to learn through trial and error. There are right and wrong ways to fix a broken relationship... moves that are golden, and moves that will send your ex screaming in the other direction. Just because your ex hasn't picked up the phone yet doesn't mean she's completely forgotten about you. Getting your ex to miss you can sometimes take a while, depending upon the approach you take and how much you're willing to leave her alone.
Not Chasing Your Girlfriend After The Break Up
Perhaps the biggest blunder guys make after getting dumped is the relentless chase and pursuit of an ex girlfriend. Let's face it, rejection sucks. In our ultra-competitive nature, we guys just hate to lose. And since losing is associated with giving up, most guys refuse to know when to quit... they won't take no for an answer, and won't take their girlfriend's words at face value. If you want to get back together with your ex again, it's important to realize something big: you can't change your girlfriend's mind right now. So don't even try.
The harder you push, the faster she'll run. Women usually love the attention of being desired, but in this situation it's actually going to hurt your chances of getting your ex back. By allowing your girlfriend some space, and by not chasing her, she won't flee the scene. Instead, she'll still be around... giving you the chance to show her how much you really don't need her.
Even though getting your ex back might be the only thing on your mind right now, you can't ever let her know how needy or desperate you are. Losing your girlfriend's respect is going to make things ten times harder... winning her back when she doesn't respect you is like trying to swim against the tide.
Getting Your Ex Girlfriend To Chase You Instead
All break ups have one thing in common: you'll never get back together until your exgirlfriend wants you back. To achieve this goal, you need to be something she desires again.
Remember who and what you were when you first met, and work on becoming that person again. Over time, we all slack off. Ultimately, your girlfriend fell in love with you because you had one or more of the following traits: drive, ambition, confidence, humor, strength, security, and happiness. Maybe you lost some of those things lately. Maybe the shiny new glow of your relationship wore off.
Whatever the case, you need to identify it and correct it if you're wondering why your ex girlfriend hasn't called you. Just wanting her back isn't good enough - and this is the mistake most guys make. Instead of concentrating on your own wants and desires, you need to focus on what your ex girlfriend wants and needs right now. In short, you have to make her want you back as well.
Your ex will chase you when she's curious about you again. This can't happen if you're still around every day, sitting in plain sight, doing the same things you've always been doing. To create an atmosphere where she's excited about seeing and hearing from you, you'll have to do things to improve your own situation.
This means hitting the gym, buying fresh clothes, meeting new people and starting new hobbies. Working on yourself externally will help your internal situation as well. You'll gain confidence, and you'll start channelling positive vibes.
When you're going out with friends and having a great time without her, your ex girlfriend will notice. When you're laughing and enjoying your life again, your ex will wonder why she dumped you in the first place. These are all things that will make your girlfriend jealous, and that's a great thing. Because when you create a life that she wants to be a part of? This is when your ex will call you. This is when she'll suddenly will want you back again.
Coming Up With a Step by Step Plan For Getting Her Back
Just as with anything in life, planning things out will always help you succeed. When it comes to getting back an exgirlfriend, this is no exception. There are a number of great methods and techniques for making your ex need you in her life again, and the more of these you know, the better off you'll be. The chances of reversing your break up depend solely on how much planning you're willing to put into it, as well as how strong you can be in sticking to that plan - especially the parts that require you to give your girlfriend the space she needs to miss you.
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