How Should I Talk To My Ex Boyfriend?   Best Things To Say

It's not uncommon these days to keep in touch after the end of a relationship. If you happened to be on the receiving end of the breakup, you might even be looking for ways to win your ex boyfriend back.

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What should you say when he finally calls?

Talking to your ex boyfriend is a critical part of the reconciliation process, and you'll need to know exactly how to handle such contact.

So you're all broken up... and then he calls you. What should you do? How should you react?

If you're wondering how should you talk to your ex boyfriend, you're already a step ahead of the game. Many women think they can "wing it" in such a situation, and they pick up the phone without thinking. If your goal is to someday date your ex again, you have to be very careful with what you say - and don't say - when your exboyfriend contacts you again.

One of the best moves for getting your ex interested in you again? Not picking up that phone. At least, not on the initial call. By letting your boyfriend leave a message he has to wonder where you are, and what you're doing. And by not calling back immediately? You also earn some respect by not appearing needy or desperate. These are two things that can really kill your chances when it comes to winning your boyfriend back, so make sure you avoid feeling or at least outwardly exhibiting those emotions.

But once you do pick up the phone... what do you talk about? When your ex boyfriend calls you up, what are the ground rules, and what things can you say to make him want you again?

First things first: you need to remain calm, cool, and collected. The more easygoing and chill you can be on the phone, the better your chances of making a good impression. If you come off as nervous, your ex will know why. If you sound overly anxious or excited to hear from him? He'll know that too. And if your breakup ended badly, leaving you bitter and angry? Your ex boyfriend will sense those emotions if you're still harboring them. For this reason, you need to clear your head and try to remain casually impassive when your ex boyfriend contacts you again.

Want a quick tip on how to handle the ex boyfriend phone call? Pour yourself a glass of water, or grab a snack. If you're eating or drinking while talking to your ex, you'll sound extremely comfortable to him. It'll also sound as if he caught you busy doing something, and this will help out with getting off the phone quickly.

So why, if you've been waiting for your ex to call you, are you getting off the phone so fast? Because one of the best things to do when your exboyfriend calls is to leave him wanting more. By giving him the impression that you've got other things to do, your ex will start getting really curious about your new life. He'll also need to call back again, since he never really got to 'talk' to you.

How should you be talking to your exboyfriend? By being casual and a little bit vague. Ask him about work, home, or school... but not about his social life. Don't press for answers or ask if he's been seeing someone else. Above all else, do NOT talk about your break up. And if he brings it up? All the more reason to get off the phone quickly, with something like:

"Listen I'm sorry, but you caught me as I was just about ready to run out the door. Give me a call some other time, and we can catch up. Cool?"

By remaining so non-committal and uncaring about whether or not your ex calls you back, you're putting yourself right back in his head again. And by leaving the conversation so quickly, your ex boyfriend will wonder where you're going (and who you're going with). He'll actually feel a little bit rejected, because whatever you're going to do right now is obviously more important to than talking to him. Causing him to feel this way can actually accelerate the process of your ex wanting you back.

The process of getting back together with an ex boyfriend can take some time and patience. You'll also want to regain some of the power and control over the relationship that was lost when your ex broke up with you. These things are important, but you'll never get your ex back without a step by step plan. By learning what to do and when to do it, you can maximize your chances of successfully building a new relationship together.

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The Magic of Making Up is a revolutionary guide to reversing an unwanted breakup. It's especially geared toward anyone who feels lost, hopeless, or as if an ex boyfriend or girlfriend is slipping further away with each passing minute.

The wealth of information and video instruction within Magic is as invaluable asset when it comes to getting an ex to go back out with you. Relationship expert T.W. Jackson reveals exactly what you need to do in order to win back your ex, with step by step examples you can start using RIGHT AWAY.

Find out what's going on in your ex's head, including why they might currently shy away from contact. Learn reconnection techniques designed to get your ex to see you the way they used to, back when your relationship was fresh, new, and exciting.

In just minutes you can be reading this instantly downloadable guidebook, watching the videos, and finding out exactly what stage of the breakup you're at. From there, "T-Dub" takes you by the hand and leads you every step of the way through the process of getting your ex to want you, need you, and actually CHASE you the way they did in the very beginning.

  • Understand why your relationship ended, and how it's the key to reversing ANY breakup.
  • Find out how you can reverse your ex's current opinion of you, and gain back their respect.
  • Learn how to UNDO all the mistakes you made, even if it seems like you've already blown it.
  • Gain knowledge of which psychological triggers remind your ex of how good you can be together.
  • Re-ignite the spark and passion of your original romance, for both you and an unresponsive ex.

These are just some of the lessons you'll learn within The Magic of Making Up. Chapter by chapter, you'll be shown exactly what needs to be done in to get back with an ex after breaking up.

If nothing else, be sure to check out Jackson's infamous Opening Moves Video. If you're currently stuck on what to do next after your boyfriend or girlfriend isn't responding, this video gives FREE tips on how to move forward toward reconciliation... instead of backward toward a permanent breakup.

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