Getting Your Ex Girlfriend Back - Without Tricks or Mind Games
The worst part of attempting to fix a break up is that the ball always starts off in the other person's court. Your ex dumped you, and she's the one holding all the cards. Getting your exgirlfriend back is all about overcoming that initial disadvantage and seizing back power.
only true way back into your girlfriend's heart
Until you do that, your ex won't want much to do with you as a potential boyfriend. The following guide will show you the best ways to win back an ex girlfriend... without playing mind games or using any deceptive techniques.
You can't reverse any break up until you understand one thing: you first need to make your ex want you back. Until she misses and needs you again, nothing you can say or do will turn her around.
You could send all the cards, letters, and flowers in the world - none of it will mean anything. So one of the first things you need to do? Take three steps back, drop out of her sight for a while, and give enough room for the break up to finish resolving itself.
Did I just say you should sit back and allow your break up to happen? You bet I did. And you know why? Because your relationship ended the moment your ex decided to break up with you.
Since then, you've probably been fighting the break up - and your ex - the whole time.
How's that worked for you so far? Not so good? Thought so. Which is why you can't continue raging against the end of your relationship. Instead of swinging at the wind, the best thing to do is to let your ex know you not only accept the break up, but you even embrace it. Walk away from it with the knowledge that it's already over, and comfort yourself inwardly with the knowledge that with some time and patience, you're going to get your ex back.
Fixing a break up is actually pretty easy... it's staying together afterward that's kind of hard. Getting back together with someone you love doesn't make much sense if you go about it all the wrong ways... only to end up breaking up again. Before you begin, you need to understand the three main concepts to winning back your girlfriend, and the 4-step process of getting her to want you again. They're easy to grasp, but not always so easy to follow:
Let Your Exgirlfriend Experience Life Without You
This principal is the very first one, and it's also the one most guys get lost on. Refusing all contact with your ex is the one way to make her see what life will be like without you in it. This requires you to turn off your cellphone, stop sending her text messages, and not even answer your ex's emails. Any type of exgirlfriend contact is forbidden. By removing yourself from her life, she gets a great big taste of being all alone. This is what you want.
Give Her Time Alone
Another big mistake most guys make: they think they'll be able to fix their break up pretty quickly. Your ex needs time to herself, and you need to give it to her. This lets her reflect on what the two of you had, and whether or not she really wants to risk losing it. You've already given her space, but by giving her time as well you're letting the end of the relationship really soak in. Not seeing you will make your ex miss you. Over time, she'll start to worry about what you're doing (and who you're doing it with).
Make Her Know She Stands To Lose You Completely
Up until now your ex has been missing talking to you, maybe seeing you, and definitely at least hearing from you in some way. Now's the time to let her realize she's going to lose you forever if she doesn't step up and do something about it. You see, your ex expected to break up with you and g-r-a-d-u-a-l-l-y let go of your relationship. She figured you'd be where you always were - in plain sight. Seeing you still hanging around is what gives your ex the reassurance to continue your break up. But once she loses you all at once? Once she realizes you won't talk to her, write her, or be around her at all? Your ex goes from total contact to nothingness all at once. The pain associated with the suddenness of the situation is what will scare her into reconsidering her decision to end your relationship.
Getting back with your exgirlfriend is all about showing her that you mean business. She needs to realize she can't just have part of you. It's all or nothing, and showing her what she stands to lose is one of the most important aspects of making up with your ex. By forcing her to take a long look at things, your ex may see things a lot differently than she would if she could break up with you slowly, piece-by-piece, over time. Don't allow her that type of comfort in the break up, because when she dumped you? You weren't given that type of comfort at all.
All of the above concepts, when followed correctly, will cause your ex to second-guess your breakup. You can actually speed this process up by going out and having fun without her. Imagine your already-shaken exgirlfriend now seeing you laughing, smiling, and having a great time all by yourself. Not only will she worry that you're moving on without her, she's also going to question whether you needed her as much in the first place. Instead of reveling in the security and comfort of knowing you love her and want her back, she'll start realizing that maybe she misjudged the whole relationship. Watch the penduluum swing in your direction... the ball's in your court now. This is a huge part of making your ex want you again.
And do you know what the greatest part about the whole process is? You've seized control of the situation without having to play any mind games. You didn't trick your ex, or make anything up, or try to make her jealous by hamming it up with other girls. You were honest with both yourself and with her. This is huge, because when you get back together with your girlfriend she'll feel that the decision was entirely hers. This will keep you both together a lot longer than if you had tricked her into coming back using some sort of gameplay or mind techniques.
The Magic of Making Up is a revolutionary guide to reversing an unwanted breakup. It's especially geared toward anyone who feels lost, hopeless, or as if an ex boyfriend or girlfriend is slipping further away with each passing minute.
The wealth of information and video instruction within Magic is as invaluable asset when it comes to getting an ex to go back out with you. Relationship expert T.W. Jackson reveals exactly what you need to do in order to win back your ex, with step by step examples you can start using RIGHT AWAY.
Find out what's going on in your ex's head, including why they might currently shy away from contact. Learn reconnection techniques designed to get your ex to see you the way they used to, back when your relationship was fresh, new, and exciting.
In just minutes you can be reading this instantly downloadable guidebook, watching the videos, and finding out exactly what stage of the breakup you're at. From there, "T-Dub" takes you by the hand and leads you every step of the way through the process of getting your ex to want you, need you, and actually CHASE you the way they did in the very beginning.
- Understand why your relationship ended, and how it's the key to reversing ANY breakup.
- Find out how you can reverse your ex's current opinion of you, and gain back their respect.
- Learn how to UNDO all the mistakes you made, even if it seems like you've already blown it.
- Gain knowledge of which psychological triggers remind your ex of how good you can be together.
- Re-ignite the spark and passion of your original romance, for both you and an unresponsive ex.
These are just some of the lessons you'll learn within The Magic of Making Up. Chapter by chapter, you'll be shown exactly what needs to be done in to get back with an ex after breaking up.
If nothing else, be sure to check out Jackson's infamous Opening Moves Video. If you're currently stuck on what to do next after your boyfriend or girlfriend isn't responding, this video gives FREE tips on how to move forward toward reconciliation... instead of backward toward a permanent breakup.
